After nine very full, exciting, scary, life-changing, wonderful years in Chicago, we are leaving for the proverbial greener pastures. Since having Eleanor, we've long discussed the merits of living in a smaller town versus the big city. In the end, the terrible state of public schools (and the horrible expense of private ones!), the lack of our own home and yard, the hour plus commute for Matthew and the general frustrations of the city have gotten the best of us. We had been looking at new jobs for Matthew for a number of months before anything came along, and then it all happened so fast. We looked in both Iowa and Michigan, near our two families. The best job for our family was in Iowa City, so we made the decision and now we're on our way! Along with being a fantastic professional opportunity for Matthew, it will also give our family a much better quality of life and the ability to enjoy simple pleasures like weeknight dinners with Matthew, family bike rides, lounging in a hammock in our own backyard, and a home with no shared walls!
Without question, one of the toughest parts of leaving the city is saying goodbye to this chapter of our lives, and to packing up the memories of all the things we've been through in this city. There are so many good memories: meeting one of my best friends, Matthew N., and the hundreds of silly, drunk nights we had together in this city making memories. Living with so many wonderful roommates, Katie, Teresa, Matthew N, Melissa and then finally my husband. Living in so many wonderful neighborhoods: 2 apartments in Boystown, then Andersonville, then Wrigleyville, then back to Andersonville and finally over to Lincoln Square. Bringing home a sweet boxer puppy with Matthew N that we named Foster, who has grown into the gentlest, kindest most well-adjusted city dog. Getting engaged at the Art Institute, to the best partner I could imagine. Living out our newlywed days in a teeny tiny apartment full of so much happiness. Giving birth to the most beautiful baby girl who has changed our lives in every imaginable way, but somehow has left intact our sense of humor.
We'll also be leaving behind some tougher chapters, ones which we are grateful for in retrospect as they shaped us into the people we are today, but ones we are nevertheless happy to leave in the past. Things like Matthew's illness and treatment, a fluctuating economy that often made the job market difficult to negotiate, certain friendships and relationships lost and the inevitable fallout that follows those, and of course the loss of our first baby. But, we are proud to have been given those burdens...to have carried them and moved past them.
We know that there will be both good times and hard times where we are headed, and we are sailing into them with joy, wonder, excitement, and endless hope. Chicago, we salute you to a wonderful (almost) decade of life. Thank you for the memories................we'll be seeing you.
Matthew in front of Q; brunch at a great BBQ joint was a Father's Day win!
